First off, is he texting you much tell him about it. What would happen besides from that he lays off the whole deal? (Maybe he has some sort of texting rabies, then be sure of informing him about it and maybe he can get some prescription pills or something). If he stops texting, good he was never that interested anyway and you'll have a lot of space left in phone for messages from people who actually likes you. If he continues texting but in a smaller amount, maybe he haz brains. But what the flying fuck - the line about leaving a girl hanging? Promoting THE GAME much?
Secondly: Yes, clean up your fucking mess. No one likes a dirty, smelly home. And make sure to have it cleaned on every occasion when she's in your home and maybe when you're alone too. (Read self-written chapter about self-help through orderliness)
Third. What the hell? So, what you're saying is that a girl should be impressed by the amount of friends or should I say "friends" (what did you expect/project?) that her date has? Interesting theory and quite shallow I might say. If I'd be that girl and my date would holla at every girl or guy in a bar I'd probably think that he is a slut. Nothing wrong with being a slut though if that is what you are looking for. If he'd go on and on about his friends I'd probably ask myself what I was doing there. Why'd he need me in his life if he was already so content with his situation?
Fourth: Haha, just. Ok right. So let us pretend she/he/xhe was never there. "You said that you had a relationship but questions about it is off limit?" I do ask guys straight up front if he was cheated on or cheating. Maybe I'm behaving quite rough here but hey, a cheater is always a cheater. I don't believe in saint Margaret putting her freaking heads upon anyones head and compelling them from ever cheating again. Nah-a. Me diplomatic, fuck no.
Five: In my heads this sounds kind of right. Never take out your dick and declare to the little lady that she is now allowed to stroke it gently. Or bring out the wispy tongue and wisp about in her mouth. Think about your mother.
At the same time putting your hand lightly on the girl's back while walking or taking her hand while stepping over slippery roads I guess is quite the gentleman behavior. If she doesn't like it, respect it.
Sixth: Dating several people at the same time, yes it's alright but as it progresses is it that fair to your dates to have led them on? I'd say, be frank "I'm dating" and that is that- If she/he/xhe is ok with it then fine. If not, ok. Don't be that guy who reveals on his third date with one girl, that he's been dating six other girls at the same time and consequently fallen in love with one of them. Nice going there laddie. Remember, a heart is easily broken.
I'd go on about this since there is A LOT of dating advice on the net and the ones you're getting from friends and baking a cake and what not but I'm stopping here.
The one rule of them them all I'd say is that there is no rules. Your guts will probably tell you of it's ok to have your date wisp about in your mouth or him talking non-stop about his ex. Be yourself from the beginning. If there is any ugly truth hidden, it will reveal itself sooner or later anyway.
Hasta luego,
Louise
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